So whose fault

I have heard too many news about crimes recently. I have also saw many fb postings on one telling others to be carefully especially for ladies. So it usually says like this "to the ladies out there, please stay at home or be careful when you are out there". Well, I am thinking. What the neck. Why do we need to ask the ladies to stay at home or be careful. To the mothers out there, to the ladies out there and to the wifey out there. Tell you son, your boyfriend, your husband to behave so that the ladies don't have to be afraid of going out late or alone. And to the "polici" ah out there, do your job lahhhhhh.